With only a couple of weeks vacation a year, wanting to squeeze every ounce of travel is a reasonable expectation. Visitors to Italy often have the powerful urge to see it all, no matter the cost. There's always that desire to B-line it to the local of experiences no one else does. Don't we all wish life were so easy?
No one likes to say "no" to these desires, but truth be if your vacation is to be positively memorable you have to trust the person who is advising you. Expectations have to come into alignment with season and amount of time you have.
You may prefer to hear what you want, but what makes Ring My Bell excellent at what it does is that it tells you HOW it is! Once the crowds, long lines, hot temperatures, crying children take their toll, it may be too late to do something different.
Try and manage your own expectations before you travel. Don't mistake limited time with limited enjoyment. If you are looking for sound alternatives for your vacation so you want to come back. Be wise. Take time.